Toni Romiti Returns: A Bold Declaration of Love and Growth in ‘Men Ain't Shit Except Mine’
Toni Romiti’s much-anticipated return to music arrives in the form of Men Ain’t Shit Except Mine, a two-part EP that signals both a continuation and evolution of her career. Known for her sharp, candid takes on love and relationships, Romiti first gained widespread recognition during the Vine era, but her musical ambitions have long since outgrown the platform that launched her. This 5-track project marks her first release in over four years, bridging the gap between her signature "talking shit about men" style and more reflective, personal storytelling. "I’ve had this concept for almost 5 years now," Romiti says, noting her desire to create something that reflects her current life. The result is a bold, intimate offering that sees her reconciling her past persona with her present reality.
The album is particularly notable for its personal stakes, as Romiti’s life has changed dramatically since her last release. Now a mother to a three-year-old daughter, Lily, Romiti includes her on one of the tracks — a rare move that blurs the line between the artist’s public and private worlds. Her partner, Jaecob, has been a steadfast support system throughout this period, despite his intentional absence from social media. The EP’s cover art features the couple, further emphasizing the intimate, family-centric nature of the project. This shift in focus doesn’t dilute Romiti’s signature bite, but it does reveal a softer, more introspective side.
“I’ve had this concept for almost 5 years now, but I was also feeling like the music that people have always loved for me is more so talking shIt about men, So my last album I released, I tried to stick to my roots. But I think a love song project from me would be awesome, and I wanna just go for it. I want my art to reflect my life at this point.”
Romiti has been refreshingly open about her post-partum journey, from regaining her physical strength to rediscovering her love for basketball. Once a Division I athlete, she recently made headlines by leading her team to victory in the Venice Beach women’s league championship. These personal milestones are mirrored in the EP’s broader themes of resilience and self-assurance. Produced by Jay Uncut, the EP feels like a declaration not just of personal triumph but of Romiti’s commitment to balancing her passions for music, motherhood, and sports.
Despite her years away from the spotlight, Romiti’s fanbase has remained loyal, captivated by both her music and her journey into motherhood. With over a billion streams to her name, her influence stretches beyond her own releases. Tracks like "Nothin On Me" and "Imma Dog Too" have become anthems, while her work behind the scenes, penning songs for Chris Brown and Dej Loaf, has earned her further industry recognition. Her ability to navigate both the highs and lows of life with authenticity has kept her audience engaged, and Men Ain’t Shit Except Mine feels like the culmination of that growth. For those who have followed her journey, this project offers a glimpse into Romiti’s world like never before.
Ultimately, Men Ain’t Shit Except Mine is a powerful statement of Romiti’s evolution as an artist and a person. While her biting humor and candid takes on love remain, there is a newfound maturity that runs through the project, as Romiti embraces the complexities of motherhood and long-term relationships. The EP serves as a reminder that she is still the same artist who dominated the internet with her no-nonsense approach, but now with a depth that comes from lived experience. This chapter in her career marks Romiti as an artist who refuses to be confined by expectations, carving out a unique space for herself in the industry. In this sense, Men Ain’t Shit Except Mine is not just a return — it's a rebirth.
